Recently I’ve wanted to make out with my boyfriend in shop dressing rooms. We literally have NO privacy anywhere else. My parents won’t even allow me to bring guys over to hang out, and if i make some school related excuse the door has to stay open and they check on us every few minutes. His family arent as bad but he has loads of brothers and sisters and one of the younger ones walked in on us once and it was so embarassing.
I know its still a public place, but at least its a nice secluded little cubicle.
We’ve tried cinema, but its usually ridiculously crowded, like, no elbow room type crowded not just having to share the row with someone.
Wasn’t it Wilhelm Reich who said society doesn’t give young lovers enough privacy? I totally agree.
And there is the element of excitement, obviously.
Theres a shop which would be perfect, the doors have nice secure sliding locks not those crappy loose ones that just barely keep the door shut, its a proper little room not just a stall, the walls go right up to the ceiling with no gap and the gap under the door is only about an inch or two. Theyre fairly big too, and they have comfy leather benches… and in the mens department on a weekday afternoon, theres rarely an attendant there and if there is its not exactly difficult to just slip in.
But i want to make sure theres nothing wrong with it legally, I mean, i hear about court cases and public indecency charges, but im also told about people just getting kicked out of the shop, sometimes banned.
We wouldn’t be having sex or anything, just making out, but what if they thought we were actually getting off or something? What usually happens, what’s the procedure for them if we’re caught? How much trouble could we get into?
Hes 16 and I’m 17
Also, any tips?
Curtis – Its a nice idea, but no we don’t. At least as far as I know. Its a nice idea but we’re in the deep city. The closest thing we have are a bunch of rather infamous "20p toilets" in an alley someplace. Hardly romantic, At least most dressing rooms have a nicer atmosphere, and its a kink for a lot of people.